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Bugis Street_21Dec2010 Christmas'e Eve from office in Singapore. Halfday work today because all offices closed. 1st time away from Malaysia during Christmas. Come to Singapore since Monday for work-related issues and extending the stay to catch-up with friends in Singapore. Merry Christmas to ALL. Wishing everyone good health and happiness always :)

Conversation with a friend (girl) - C: How do you know if a guy already has a gf? Me: Cannot. Only if the guy let you know. Or you know his friends. Then you can ask his friends. C: =( Cheh. Me: That why there are few times when some of my friends (girls) like a guy, I become the spy C: Walau Me: Girls will not go so direct and ask la C: I thought got ways to know :( Me: Cannot see la. Really one =) Guys easier. Will straight go ask C: Hahahaha Me: So, I can help you to spy if you want. Do I know the guy? C: Nola. Not in the circle Actually the answer is very simple. Although a guy is attached, he will not show it if he don't want to let you know. So, do not 'JUMP' into it if you are not sure =)

I should post this 2 days ago. But look like I become lazier as days pass by me... What is the significant of this date? Let me see. If you read it from the front and from the back, you will get the same reading. Some people say this date happen more often so it is not celebrated or remembered by them. However, I don't care what others think =p I am not obsessed but just want to be different =)

Had a conversation with a friend (girl) few days ago. A: My colleague is a nice guy. Me: Go for him then :p A: No. Me: Why? A: He is too desperate. Me: Is that matter? If he is a nice guy, why does it matter whether he is desperate or not? A: He is too desperate... err... ( thinking of giving a good reason ) Me: Is he financially stable, have a good prospect in career and a good guy? A: Yes . Me: Just accept him then. A: No. Me: Why? A: He is too desperate. Me: OK. Fine. End of conversation. Quite a brilliant conversation, right? No reason given and although the guy is nice, he will not get a chance if he show he is desperate. Just don't understand what girls think nowadays :p :p :p So guys, conclusion is DO NOT show that you are desperate although you are because you will not get a chance if you show that :) :) :) 5.41pm -04Oct2010

I hate to be in this state of mind... I feel helpless and not really know what am I doing. Someone please help me :(

Yeah, I m finally 29th... The last twenty-something of me =)

Enjoying the nice food at Rakuzen The gang for the day at Neway Had a nice outing on 15th August 2010 with Leang, Kenny and Pui Yen . Went to Rakuzen for dinner and karaoke in Neway USJ :) The outing is pending since the end of WC2010 because Leang and me win a bet with Kenny and PuiYen ( We supported Spain and they supported Argentina =p ) Enjoying the moment of friendship that is further enhanced in this outing. Nice food and nice company with a lot of 'sampat' moment make this day unforgetable. Thanks to Kenny & Pui Yen for the treat Thanks to Leang, Kenny & Pui Yen for the great time together. P.S.: I should be blogging about WC2010 but given up on that post already.

Quoting from Bro Oh Kim Leng: Say Sorry and Move On Apologising again and again drains our energy and eats into our emotional well being. Say 'sorry' when it is due and trust that if the other party is unwilling to forgive us, then no amount sorries will ever be enough. "Sorry" has no meaning to those who choose to hate or do not want to understand, but say it anyway if we have erred. For those who truly love you, saying it even once can be too much. I. M. S.O.R.R.Y. -to those who care for me -to those who love me -to those who worry about me -to those who hate me -to those I hurt and I M MOVING ON... N.O.W. (hopefully)

Since past weeks, I have been ask the same question again and again by so many people (friends/relatives). I keep repeating the same answer and it is so tiring ( sad/heartbroken ) explaining the same thing again. After last nite All-American Boys Chorus (AABC), I finally decided that I must take the next step and do what is RIGHT and make the announcement NOW. WE BROKE UP. ( after almost 6 years been together ) For those who close to me & her, you probably know the reason. To say that we mutually agreed to break-up is maybe an understatement. We ( maybe juz me?) try to make this relationship happen and keep dragging along the way. We ( she again saying wanted to break-up ) almost broke up before CNY and get back together again and again for the n th times. We are hurting each other and the more I want to love, the more we get hurt. We started drifted away from each other further and further since May. Finally, I realise that this relationship cannot be happening at the moment

So many things to be written but I think I need to get this out of my mind now... Watched Inception today 1.30pm at TGV 1U with 2 friends. What a mind-blowing movie. Good acting with good storyline make this movie a 10/10 for me. Somehow, after the movie, I realise of something that the movie try to bring out. First, 'letting go' . So many times in our lifes, we keep on holding to something that we like, attracted, lust without realising that we actually does not own it. We keep on living in our past, or as in the movie, in our dream that we eventually do not want to face the reality. But no, there will be time when you finally get the 'kick' and when this happen, you will be awake. And yes, YOU and ONLY YOURSELF can help you to get out of your dream in this world, REALITY... No other people to help you like in the movie. Second, 'inception is a bad idea' . 'Mal' committed suicide because of inception. We do this all the time; during work, conversation w